Lots of people know this song from Dating Rules From my Future Self. Now I knew this song before that, but it honestly was best used in the mini series. It is the perfect song for a breakup when you need to feel awesome. So I'm not an expert on breaking up, since I've never even dated anyone and my friends haven't exactly needed moral support for any dudes...we're a stable group of people lol. Regardless there is still a set list of what to do when you cut that person out. So in the event any of you need the list, here it is. 1. Wallow: I know most people would disagree with me on this, but it's good to realize that that was a huge part of your life and have a chance to mourn that it's over. So watch sappy movies with your friends in your PJ's while eating ice cream and crying if need be. Get it all out of your system because you only get that one night. 2. Cleanse: remove all the pictures of him, get rid of his stuff, change the name in your phone, so you know not to pick up...basically remove every trace that he ever existed. 3. Transform: Do something for yourself, go to the spa, get your hair done, full make over, shopping spree...whatever. Just make yourself feel awesome and let that be the new you. 4. Let Go: Realize that you are probably going to run into him again and depending on how long you were together, run in the same group of friends. In order to make it easier for everybody, have it out with him alone, tell him how you feel and that it's for sure over, but that you both need to be mature about this and not drag everyone down. You may not be friends again, but at least be okay enough to tolerate each other in the same place. There you go, an easy to follow list. This song would come into play during the cleanse and transforming, so if you find yourself in that position rock out to this, it should help.
Peace.
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